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The Difference Between Wanting Attention And Paying Attention
People don’t always remember the one who asks for attention . But they remember the one who simply made them feel relaxed, understood and more like themselves — by paying attention.

Nasir Engineer
7 days ago3 min read


The Lingering Exit
With an early exit, you allow the short time frame of your presence to become impactful.

Nasir Engineer
Mar 43 min read


Don’t Grab The Hand When You’re Offered a Finger: On Selling
Don’t just start pitching. Many people talk like it's just the sale that matters. But what makes the sale happen is the human-to-human interaction

Nasir Engineer
Feb 14 min read


The Underdog
Research says that people are emotionally drawn to individuals who start at a disadvantage but demonstrate effort.

Nasir Engineer
Jan 33 min read


How Other People Shape The Way You Speak
By living with someone for a long time, we start imitating their small subtle habits.

Nasir Engineer
Dec 4, 20253 min read


Curiosity Is The Shortcut To Connection
When we stay too focused on I, we forget to be curious about You. Yet, genuine curiosity is one of the strongest social skills.

Nasir Engineer
Nov 2, 20252 min read


Why Good Communicators Don't Rush
Trying hard to make conversation when it has naturally winded down is a turn off. It subtly signals desperation.

Nasir Engineer
Nov 1, 20253 min read


People Remember When You Make Them Feel Safe
You are impressionable on others when you initiate conversations. If you want to build a steady relation with that person, your best bet is to strive to make the interaction feel safe.

Nasir Engineer
Oct 1, 20253 min read


Break The Predictability of Conversations; Stand out
Quite often you’ll notice that as your conversation with a new person progresses, they speak in a style or use words that carry some level of predictability.

Nasir Engineer
Aug 2, 20253 min read


What Socially Comfortable People Do Differently
Just as you are about to take a bite out of the ramen wrapped around your fork, you drop some on your top. Shit! Shit Shit! It doesn’t take long for you to panic.

Nasir Engineer
Jul 2, 20253 min read


Why Some People Instantly Feel Magnetic
Practice building these 3 qualities below and make the other person in any conversation, introduction, speech, presentation, etc. feel spoken to.

Nasir Engineer
Jun 1, 20252 min read


The Skill Of Turning Small Talk Into Real Conversation
Here’s a technique you can have at your disposal when your small talk lingers on for far too long or goes nowhere.

Nasir Engineer
May 2, 20253 min read
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